- Pennsylvania is the most polyamorous nationally – with the highest search interest, at 660 monthly searches per 100,000 residents.
- New York ranks second with 590 monthly searches on average per 100,000 people.
- Delaware ranks third with an average of 537 Google searches a month.
- Other high-ranking locations include Michigan, New Jersey and Virginia.
New data has revealed the top 10 US states most interested in the swinger lifestyle. Additionally, experts share top tips on how to spot a swinger in your local neighborhood.
The research was conducted by experts at Joy Love Dolls, who analyzed Google search data over the last 12 months to establish which US states are the most eager about swinging. The study looked at Google searches of the top 54 swinging-related terms to calculate the monthly search interest per 100,000 residents. Search terms ranged from “swing lifestyle,” “wife swapping,” to “sex parties.”
Top 10 swinging states
Pennsylvania topped the list of states most interested about swinging, with a monthly average search volume of 660 per 100,000 residents. To put that into perspective, Pennsylvania searches for swinging 44% more per capita than Ohio, which ranked 10th out of the top 10 cities. The top three search terms being Googled in Pennsylvania are “swing lifestyle,” “threesome,” and “sls lifestyle.” According to pennsylvaniaswinger.net there are 30 swinger clubs located within Pennsylvania, and the websites quotes that “Pennsylvania is recognized as one of the top states in the nation for swinging couples.”
In second place is New York, with an average of 590 searches a month per 100,000 people. New York has the largest population of the top 10, and its top two searches are for ‘swing lifestyle’ and ‘swinger’.
In third place is Delaware, with an average of 537 monthly searches for swinging per 100,000 people. Delaware has the smallest population of the top 10 and it bordered by Pennsylvania, New Jersey and Maryland, which all ranked high for states most into swinging at first, fifth and eleventh.
Michigan is fourth place, with 526 average monthly searches per 100,000 people. According to swinglifestyle.com there are 12 swinger clubs located within Michigan.
Followed by New Jersey just behind in fifth place, with 512 average monthly searches per 100,000 residents.
In sixth place is Virginia, with 501 monthly searches per 100,000 people. The presence of clubs like Virginia’s Secret, along with the frequent events they host, indicate a robust and active swinger community.
In seventh is North Carolina, with an average of 498 searches a month per 100,000 people. Its southern neighbour, South Carolina, is in eighth place, with an average of 481 searches a month per 100,000 residents.
Just after that is Nevada, with an average of 460 searches a month per 100,000 people. Nevada’s top five searches are for ‘swing lifestyle’, ‘threesome’, ‘swinger’, ‘sls lifestyle’ and ‘swinger club’.
Finally, rounding off the list in tenth place is Ohio, with 458 monthly searches on average per 100,000 people. Ohio has 110% more residents searching for a swinging lifestyle than those in Alaska, which placed last out of all the states.
Alaska, Kansas, Oklahoma, Montana, North Dakota, Nebraska, Iowa, Hawaii, Arkansas and South Dakota are the 10 locations least bothered about the swinger lifestyle.
Amy Nguyen, sex education expert, commented on the findings: “It’s interesting to see the northeastern of the United States has a notable presence in the top 10 swinging states, and this could be attributed to several factors. “The region, which includes states like New York, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, and New Jersey, has a high population density and a significant number of urban centers.
“Cities like New York City, Boston, and Philadelphia are known for their cultural diversity and progressive attitudes, which foster an open-minded approach to various lifestyles, including swinging.
“The Northeast’s historical roots in social activism could also contribute to a more accepting environment for an alternative lifestyle. Additionally, the region’s well-established social networks and access to a variety of entertainment options make it easier for swinger communities to thrive.
“Together, these factors can create an environment that encourages swinging to be more widely accepted and practiced.”
How to spot sex in the suburbs
Amy Nguyen, sex education expert, reveals how you can spot signs if you neighbour may secretly be a swinger.
- 1. Pink Flamingo, Garden Gnome or Pampas Grass in the front yard
While they may look like innocent decoration, pink flamingos, garden gnomes or pampas grass in the front garden are a potential indicator that residents of the property are into swinging.
- 2. Upside down pineapple displayed
A upside down pineapple may look like a cute display but it can suggest an individual or couple participate in the swinger lifestyle and are looking for a swinging party. Furthermore, a pineapple when kept on a patio or mailbox implies there is currently a swinger party is currently being held.
The popularity of the upside-down pineapple symbol has made its way on to the likes of clothes to cruise ship bedroom doors as a secret symbol to recognize each other in broad daylight. The upside-down pineapple meaning has viral on TikTok for showing it’s a sign that swingers live there and has reached over 45.9 million views.
- 3. Black ring on the right hand
Some swingers opt for specific jewellery to express they are a swinger such as a black ring on the right-hand ring finger. Although it’s important to remember this could just be a personal style choice.
- 4. Large mirrors in the home
While large mirrors alone are not definitive proof that someone is a swinger, their presence can be a subtle hint when combined with other signs and symbols. Large mirrors are popular in the swinging community as it allows individuals or couples to observe themselves and others from different angles.
- 5. Hot tub in the backyard
Having a hot tub in the backyard is considered a popular swinger trait due to their relaxation and intimacy. However, as with any potential indicator, it’s important to consider the presence of a hot tub in combination with other signs rather than jumping to conclusions based on this one factor alone.
States ranked by monthly average search volume for a swinger lifestyle per 100,000 people
| Rank | Location | Keyword Searches (per 100k Population) |
| 1 | Pennsylvania | 660 |
| 2 | New York | 590 |
| 3 | Delaware | 537 |
| 4 | Michigan | 526 |
| 5 | New Jersey | 512 |
| 6 | Virginia | 501 |
| 7 | North Carolina | 498 |
| 8 | South Carolina | 481 |
| 9 | Nevada | 460 |
| 10 | Ohio | 459 |
| 11 | Maryland | 458 |
| =12 | Rhode Island | 453 |
| =12 | Florida |
